Neil William Cadger

1987 - 2006
LocationPeterhead
Age18 years
Cause of DeathRoad Traffic Collision
Date of Birth31/07/1987
Date of Death16/05/2006
Visitors704 since 15/05/2009
Creator

My little "big" brother meant the world to me. We fought and argued liked brother and sister did,
but i never realised just how much it would hurt to lose him. You expect them always to be here! Its
been 3 years and still hurts like it happened yesterday. He was taken far too soon and had lots to
live for.
My heart now has an empty space, which can never be filled. The only thing i can look forward too is
meeting him again someday, whenever that may be.
I never expected that the morning he left for work would be the last i would see him, talk to him,
laugh with him. Theres so many things i would have wanted to say, but if i knew it was going to
happen i would never have let him go.
The only comfort i can take is knowing he died instantly and he suffered no pain. The impact of the
crash was so quick it was over instantly. A blink of the eye and he was gone.
Having noone to blame is hard to accept. Knowing there is no reason why he can't be with me.
They say life goes on and it does, but acceptance takes a long time, and today i still cannot accept
hes not here to share my special times. Never be at my wedding, see my children or meet his nephews.

i do know one thing though. God is very lucky to have my brother with him. He really is one in a
million. Irreplaceale, unforgetable and very much loved and in my heart forever.

I love you! I just wish you could be here to tell you in person or else had the chance to say before
you left x x




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hey

hey little bro, i was just passing through so i thought i would say hi. u are never ever forgotten and i will love you forever x xx x

Nicola Cadger (Sister) September 25, 2009

why?

its my birthday today bro. Where are u? Why u not here? None of my birthdays have mattered since u left. I would give anything for u 2 be here!! I wish more than anything u cud b here then it would b a celebration!! I miss u so much!!! Love u always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Nic xxxxxx

Nicola Cadger (Sister) June 28, 2009

I lost my sister in March 2009 and there will forever be an empty place in my heart..Praying for comfort,peace and strength for your precious family..

Trish Boyer May 16, 2009

Neil

Angel neil

up above fly high and send your family all your love

Fiona Campbell May 16, 2009

God called your name so gently,
That only you could hear.
No one heard the footsteps,
Of angels drawing near.

Softly from the shadows
There came a gentle call,
You closed your eyes and went to sleep,
And quietly left us all.
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Mary Gloster May 15, 2009

Friends

My thoughts are with you and your family. I lost my 16 year old son Carl in a road traffic accident on the 30th April 06. Love always Dianne x x x x x

Dianne Hinton May 15, 2009

I know how you feel. I lost my brother 3 years ago on May 3rd. (my birthday) he was shot by a no good thug. I miss him very much. He was my baby brother (only brother). Not a day goes by that I don't miss him I still have a voice message he left me 2 days before he died. We will get through this because we can look forward to seeing them again oneday.

Jodi Parmer May 15, 2009

i miss u

You are not here with me anymore,
You went away,
I loved you so much,
But couldn't make you stay.

You're up in heaven now,
Looking down on me,
I miss you so much little bro,
That you can see.

Although the tears have almost stopped,
I think of you everyday,
You will always be with me,
And we'll meet again someday!


I love you so much, my heart has never healed. If tears could help get u back then you should be here. I wish i could see u one last time. Say how much you meant and still mean to me. Our family will never be the same. U have left a huge hole, a hole that noone can fill. I miss your smile, having a laugh, going on holiday, our little "don't tell mum" chats and even our fighting. I hope its not long till we can be 2gether again!

Nic xx x

Nicola Cadger (Sister) May 15, 2009
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